Red flags are defined as those little comments made by someone you are communicating with that make you feel uneasy as though something is not quite right. You may notice that something is said or that certain characteristics and behaviors come out that make you think twice about pursuing anything with that individual.

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Why do I find it so easy not to cheat?

Maybe I'm not very attractive, so my options are limited. Maybe I'm too jaded to go for the cheating opportunities. Maybe I still have some mental wounds lingering from when my dad temporarily moved out because he had met another woman. Maybe I'm too afraid that I've reached my sin quotient and one more big sin will keep me out of heaven.

Cheating is not a caught in the moment thing if you are really into your significant other, you miss th... Read More

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You're at the bar with a group of friends. You're talking. You're laughing. You're dancing. And more than anything, you're drinking. A lot.

As you consume more and more alcohol, the bar gradually becomes more entertaining, your friends become funnier and that stranger you just started chatting with is a lot more attractive. So attractive, you think, why not bring him home for a night of casual sex?

At the time, it just makes sense. He's nice. You get along perfectly. He might ev... Read More

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This is a great article for everyone.

As a divorce attorney, I pride myself on having saved some marriages during my 25 years in practice. I would very much like to see people work things out, if they can. I have come to realize that if couples try one or more of the following 9 suggestions, they may be able to keep their relationship from hitting the rocks in the first place.

1. Delineate "yours," "mine," and "ours." If you have finances that should be placed in each of these t... Read More

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